I'm in the same place as you. My mom is 92. Her memory is fading, but I don't want her in a nursing home as long as I can physically take care of her. She and my dad took care of me when I needed help. It's my turn now.
My fiance is fighting cancer. I battle finding time for both of them, plus working. Work may be what eventually has to go. I would still be able to continue to do volunteer work as I do now and have more time for mom and Mike.
Getting older sucks ! lol
Terry
